Embracing November

    


November is a month that always feels short to me. It starts with the last vestiges of Halloween then quickly moves through to Veteran's Day. By the time you reach Thanksgiving, the winter holiday season is underway. December is full of so much to do and think about, it is natural to want to get started early. But, if like me you are working on being more present and in the moment, embracing November may be beneficial. One easy way to do this is with a bucket list. Merely brainstorm some things you'd like to do in the month of November and see how many you can accomplish. Try to keep it simple. Life is busy so if your list is full of day trips and get togethers with friends, you may want to scale back. Think small moments like making chili or visiting the library. Here are some ideas to get you started.

Eleven things to put on a November bucket list...

                    1- Take a walk on a local trail or around town

                    2- Make a fall or Thanksgiving themed craft

                    3- Read a book or watch a movie that takes place in colonial times

                    4- Take a family photo outside

                    5- Make something featuring cranberries (appetizer, salad, cookies, punch)

                    6- Buy a new candle or two

                    7- Donate to charity

                    8- Enjoy a slice of your favorite pie

                    9- Have coffee with a friend  

                    10- Research new recipes to utilize all those Thanksgiving  leftovers

                    11- Send a note to someone special


Have fun and remember this isn't a "to do" list.  Each item should be something satisfying but not necessary. You'll need all the energy you can get for December!  

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